What Things Mean
BDSM - Bondage
Discipline Sadism masochism. BDSM is not a psychological disorder.
Bondage - Those who participate
in being tied to objects.
Bottom - A term used for
most that "play" in the submissive role. Gives up control but only
for the play time
CBT - Cock and ball torture,
often including the scrotum
D/s - Domination and submission
Dominant - One who dominates
another person this can extend beyond a play scene.
Dungeon The space set
aside for play. Filled with equipment ranging from a cross, bench, stocks
etc.
Dungeon Monitor (DM) -
This is the "lifeguard" of the dungeon who will ensure the rules
are followed and everyone remains safe. They are usually identified by a armband
that reads DM.
Edge Play - Something
that is on the edge of one's limits. Be aware what is edge play to someone
might not be to someone else.
Fetish - Attraction or
attachment to an idea or object. Examples - Leather, uniforms, black attire.
Fetish Party - Within
this party you will find loud dance music, people dressed in their SINDAY
best, usually there is play sometimes the space is not monitored by dungeon
monitors. Most parties have dungeon rules.
Limit - A place/experience
a person believes they do not wish to go. Limits are always changing and being
tested and/or expanded.
Masochism - Deriving pleasure,
often sexual, from receiving pain or humiliation.
Master/Mistress - A title/term
for those that are given control over another.
Munch - A set time and
place where people with BDSM interest gather for a meal and usually discussion.
Play Party - A quieter
version of a fetish party where the focus is more on the play aspect. This
party will have a Monitored play space with lots of equipment. It is usually
a more relaxed atmosphere then the Fetish party. Most play parties have dungeon
rules.
RACK - Risk Aware Consensual
Kink
Sadism - The deriving
of pleasure from inflicting pain/hummiliation on another.
Safeword - This is something
the bottom/submissive can use to slow down or stop whatever is being done
to them. Common safewords are Red, Yellow and Green.
SSC - Safe Sane Consensual
Submissive - One who is willing to submit their body and mind for another pleasure.. Switch - Person who enjoys both Dom/me and submissive roles
Top - Is the one in control
of a scene, This role does not usually extend beyond the scene.